"Dad, I’m dating a Black man."

These six words can trigger a flood of emotions—shock, fear, confusion, even anger—in a white Christian parent raised in a racially biased culture. But what if those feelings aren’t just about your daughter’s relationship… what if they reveal something broken inside your own heart?

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In My Daughter is Dating a Black Man: Lord, Please Help Me Change, Douglas Anderson offers an unflinching, Spirit-led guide for white Christian parents grappling with deep-rooted racial discomfort when their daughters enter interracial relationships. With biblical insight, personal reflection tools, and honest storytelling, this “how-to” journey confronts the sin of racism, not in society at large—but within. Anderson invites readers to examine how culture, family history, and fear have shaped their responses, and how Christ can radically transform even the most hidden parts of the heart.

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What if instead of reacting with shame, denial, or defensiveness, you could walk a path toward peace, healing, and genuine love? What if the cross of Christ is powerful enough not only to save your soul—but to renew your mind, destroy prejudice, and build new bridges across racial lines in your own family? This book helps readers:

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• Identify and repent of inherited prejudice and cultural idolatry

• Embrace biblical truths about race, love, and unity

• Repair damaged family relationships through humility and grace

• Become a Christlike witness in a racially divided world

 

Through Scripture-based teaching, prayers, reflection prompts, and real-world application, this book doesn’t shame—it shepherds.

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If your heart is crying out, “Lord, help me change,” this book is your answer. Don’t remain stuck in guilt, fear, or cultural conditioning. Take the first step toward healing, understanding, and reconciliation. Let Jesus change you from the inside out—so you can truly love your daughter, her boyfriend, and the diverse Body of Christ as He does.

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Read this book. Reflect. Repent. Be transformed.
It’s not just your daughter’s journey—it’s yours.